I recently started reading the book, SHED Your Stuff, Change Your Life by Julie Morgenstern. Well, reading is sort of an understatement, with my schedule and short attention span, perusing is a better word. I've been scanning the pages, trying to find little pearls of wisdom that I can use.
From what I gather her plan involves four steps;
1. Separate the treasures
2. Heave the trash
3. Embrace your identity
4. Drive yourself forward.
It is more than just a simple, straightforward 'get rid of clutter, organize your life' book. I know how to declutter. I call it "trash bag cleaning" and do it with gusto. But I do hold on to a lot of stuff. And...most importantly and the reason why I picked up this book is that I am a little stuck. Lots of good things going on in my life. Loads of opportunity and potential....but I am NOT SLEEPING. I am TOO BUSY. The STRESS is catching up to me in spades. I need a better focus and a plan.
Hence trying to squeeze a self-help book into the mix.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. Henry David Thoreau.Okay, I am living the dream so to speak. Years ago I wrote in my journal that I wanted to be a
writer, artist and teacher.....I am all three
. This is fabulous....but be careful for what you ask for! I am unfocused and trying to do too much in all three areas. Basically I have two full-time jobs, demanding hobbies and four active children. Full-time freelance writer, full-time teacher, artist, roller derby, running...and never ending mom duties.
Writing- NEED to pare down my themes. I make a good income, but have numerous topics that I am trying to juggle. I might be able to do a better job if I was keeping on top of one or two subjects.
Teaching- Love it, but it is exhausting! Too many classes, too many big projects, and art shows galore. Will be paring this down next year. I won't quit....but I need to create a saner schedule.
Personal Art *This is where I SHED first- much to my son's dismay, I heaved a large amount of art that was just sitting in storage cabinets. I like empty shelves and the paintings were never going to hang in a museum. I pictured myself deciding what to do with them when I am 90...and out they went.
If the book shines a light on my life and helps me release some of the load...I will update. Crossing fingers!